Rule #1: Life isn't fair

It's just a fact. Life isn't fair. We can't really decide what happens to us. It's not fair that my mom has to go through this. It's not fair that kids in other countries die from starving. It's not fair that a family has to loose a loved one through cancer. Life's just not fair. But no matter what happens in life things turn out by how you deal with them. "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you handle it." I realized there 2 ways i could deal with this whole thing. I could sit around and pout and say " I hate my life. This isn't fair." But what good would that do at all? It'd do absolutely nothing. The other choice is to live my life out...seeking to find what God wants for my life and how he wants to use me. I know that God will never give me more than I can handle. I can get through this. I need to get along better w/my family. They're the only ones in the entire world that know exactly what i'm going through and they know me better than anyone else. So why do we always treat other people better than our families? Shouldn't it be the other way around? I'm slowing learning that i need to grow in my relationships w/my brother and sister and lean on them so we can do this journey together.